Butt plugs are a fun way to spice up your sex life, as it has a tremendous amount of nerve endings around it. Wearing a butt toy adds a new level of excitement to your life. But many beginners aren't sure how to use them. This guide will provide you with all the information you need for an enjoyable and safe butt plug experience.
First off, what is a butt plug?
A Butt plug, also called an anal plug. Is a sex toy that can be inserted into anal for pleasure. To ease insertion, butt plugs are narrow at the tip and wider in the middle. At the end of the plug, there is typically a slimmer neck followed by a flared base to ensure that the sex toy does not slip into the rectum.These toys can be made from varieties of materials and come in different sizes an and sizes.
How to insert the butt plug?
We have listed a few things you should consider when playing with your butt plug.
#1 Choose the right material and size
In some movies and novels, people use shampoo bottles, hairbrushes, or bananas as butt plugs. This is definitely wrong and unsafe.
The first thing wrong is the shape. Anything used for anal play must be flared at the end, like a butt plug. If it's not flared, you will go to the ER with a very embarrassing story.
Second, they are rough. This is because the skin is covered in little nooks and crannies. All of these harbor tons of bacteria, pesticides, fungal spores, and more.
Third, some are too soft. For example, bananas. The muscles of your rectum are very strong. During sex you will flex a lot and put the banana under much stress, causing it to easily burst open.
Choose anything that's silicone, borosilicate glass (Pyrex), or stainless steel is a good bet. If you're a total beginner, start with the smallest size is more comfortable.
#2 Prepare the anal area
Before inserting the anal plug, it's significant to clean the area around the anal. You can do this by taking a shower or using a damp cloth to clean the area.
#3 Apply a lot of lube
Unlike the vagina, the anal does not produce lubricant on its own; therefore, the use of lube is important to your comfort and safety. As well as making sex and play safer by reducing the risk of injury, tearing and soreness, lube can make sex feel great.
You may be confuse, how can I use the lube? Following the steps:
Start with putting a big pump or squirt of lube on your hole with your fingers (nails clipped!) or the toy itself. Then, insert a well-lubed finger or two or start with the smallest dilator just to coat that outer and inner rim (remember we want everything coated with lube).
Next, put a generous amount of lube on the toy itself and gently insert the tip of the toy into your hole, slowly dilating and coating the sphincters with lube.
#4 Take it easy and go slowly
"Start gently and slowly," Sammi says. "It’s essential that you are relaxed to enjoy anal play."
Make sure you've spoken about your expectations and any concerns with your partner first if you're trying a butt plug during partnered sex for the first time. If you're going it alone, take your time. Start with a small toy, and gradually get acquainted with it and more comfortable. Insert it slowly and just sit there with it inside and see how it feels. Then experiment with different positions to find what feels most comfortable and pleasurable.
#5 Remove butt plug
When you are going to remove the butt plug, grab the stem of the plug and start pulling slowly. This is a slow and delicate procedure. Your hand and your sphincter must work in coordination to pull the plug out in the safest possible manner.
Therefore to pull out the plug, you should first push hard with your sphincter muscle as if you were having a bowel movement, while pulling out the plug by hand with the stem.
At first, nothing seems to move, but if you gently pull the plug by hand while pulling with your sphincter, it will soon begin to slowly move out.
#6 Make the butt plug clean
Any anal-related sexual activity requires extra care when it comes to cleanliness. Without proper hygiene practices, bacteria in your colon can spread to your genitals or mouth and cause infection. Wash your anal plug with warm water and mild soap or sex toy cleaner before and after each use. Consider placing a condom over your anal plug, especially if it is a toy you may share with a partner or use on other parts of your body.
Summary
In light of everything we said above, it’s clear that using an anal plug can be a fun and pleasurable experience, but it's important to take your time, choose the correct butt plugs, and use plenty of lubricant.
Several top-notch choices of butt plugs:
Bunny Tail Butt Plug
Crystal Butt Plug
Heart-Shaped Butt Plug
Inflatable Butt Plug
Fox Tail Butt Plug
